Talk About Marriage - View Single Post

deejov · 07-13-2012, 03:28 PM

that's just the rub, Lon.
What other choices does a betrayed spouse have... when the cheater is unremorseful??

They have whatever choice they make. The BS can choose to stay, it's their life. There are no rules that apply to everyone. There is no book that says all cheaters MUST do A, B, C and if they don't they you need to get divorced.

Advice from those who have been through it is helpful and supportive. But in the end, it's up to them and that needs support too.

07-13-2012, 03:28 PM	#11 (permalink)
deejov Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Alberta Posts: 1,779	Re: Thoughts On The Current State Of TAM that's just the rub, Lon. What other choices does a betrayed spouse have... when the cheater is unremorseful?? They have whatever choice they make. The BS can choose to stay, it's their life. There are no rules that apply to everyone. There is no book that says all cheaters MUST do A, B, C and if they don't they you need to get divorced. Advice from those who have been through it is helpful and supportive. But in the end, it's up to them and that needs support too.