Originally Posted by Lon
Have you considered that it is your own perceptions and biases that have changed and not necessarily the tone of the site?
I think it's both TBH. My own perceptions have definitely changed as I've posted on here on the ups and downs of my admittedly short marriage. Like you, I evolved from the General Discussion, to the Men's Area, then to CWI as I encountered those events in my marriage. It could be that as my needs and experiences have changed, the threads that I take interest in have also changed, and it just so happens that the threads I take interest in now follow the vibes in my OP.