Originally Posted by Hope1964
He is lying to you because he knows he's doing something wrong that you disapprove of.
He continues to lie to you because he lied in the first place and to tel the truth now would be admitting to the original lie.
How do you know he isn't following through with any of these 'meetings'?
I agree with you but I wish he didn't feel he had to.
I would be totally okay if he would just tell me.
It would be logistically very difficult for him to follow through. Also I have kept tabs on the messages and nothing seems to indicate a meeting. After a couple messages it's more like them replying "hey, you still want to do this?"