Originally Posted by Davelli0331

Deejo and Chris,

For brevity's sake, I won't quote both of your posts. I will say, though, that I'm very thankful of the work you guys put in. I'm a programmer, I write code all day that hundreds of end users interact with. I fully understand the ups and downs of bringing a product to market (so to speak) and watching that product be used in ways both good and bad, intended and unintended, yadda yadda yadda.

In saying that, I fully appreciate the job you guys do. You do a far better job than I would. I fully support the different mechanisms you guys have for mediating what goes on here. And in spite of some of my observations, I do still consider this place one of the most invaluable tools in handling marriage that there ever was. I would honestly put this place above many counselors. I think part of the problem (as Lon alluded to) is that maybe I've allowed my own perceptions and desires to color how I wish this site was developing.