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cdm9999 · 07-13-2012, 06:46 PM

I'm worried about the legality because I don't want my cop WH to press charges against me. I could tell him I have proof and not disclose the source, but he would probably think i was bluffing and I want him to know that I do know. If there is any risk, I will keep it to myself.

Also, I did file for D and filed under both adultery and irreconsilable differences, so I know I don't need grounds, but would love it to have adultery on record. But at least I made the statement, which was important for me because I filed for D BECAUSE of the adultery. i do realize in most cases it is easier to just do the
irreconsilable differences route in the end.

07-13-2012, 06:46 PM	#4 (permalink)
cdm9999 Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: Long Island, NY Posts: 80	Re: Regarding VARs - Legal? I don't want to get in trouble. I'm worried about the legality because I don't want my cop WH to press charges against me. I could tell him I have proof and not disclose the source, but he would probably think i was bluffing and I want him to know that I do know. If there is any risk, I will keep it to myself. Also, I did file for D and filed under both adultery and irreconsilable differences, so I know I don't need grounds, but would love it to have adultery on record. But at least I made the statement, which was important for me because I filed for D BECAUSE of the adultery. i do realize in most cases it is easier to just do the irreconsilable differences route in the end.