Originally Posted by cdm9999
I'm worried about the legality because I don't want my cop WH to press charges against me. I could tell him I have proof and not disclose the source, but he would probably think i was bluffing and I want him to know that I do know. If there is any risk, I will keep it to myself.
Also, I did file for D and filed under both adultery and irreconsilable differences, so I know I don't need grounds, but would love it to have adultery on record. But at least I made the statement, which was important for me because I filed for D BECAUSE of the adultery. i do realize in most cases it is easier to just do the
irreconsilable differences route in the end.
To press charges against you would invite the question of why it was in the car and what it found. So basically he could try something, but he'd have to air all his dirty laundry to go there.
So he won't. Relax and deploy.
even if he did try to pursue it, he would have to get a DA to file charges like lordmayhem said. No ask yourself, does a DA have time to file charges for a cheating spouse caught out by VAR? Seriously in this time of government cutbacks, you have to go a lot farther than a VAR to even get on the radar.