 Re: Are we still in 'love'
omgosh.. this is just about what I would have said.
She seems insecure in your getting new activities & friends without her. The going bootcamping early on Sats.. .could equal in her mind to a sort of cheating. You getting into something that does not involve her. Her suddenly wanting to do family stuff Sat morning , she is trying to see if she, or the family is still more important to you than this new hobby.
Reasure her in other ways that she is still the light of your life. Tell her you're doing the bootcamp thing this Sat AM, but you'd be happy to have the family go hiking, fishing, bowling.. etc.. later in the afternoon. Or do have a regular family night out thing. Try to reconnect with her on some other level than just the sex in the bedroom.
If it is her being insecure about your other activities, then she will need to feel connected to you emotionally on another level. For every new activity/hobby you do.. do something special with or for her as well.
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