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sisters359 · 07-15-2012, 11:05 AM

She knows you think she is sexy--she just doesn't see herself that way right now, for whatever reason. Keep doing what you are doing, and show the love. Other than the picture, does she seem any less loving to you?

Sounds like you are doing a lot right, and she just needs to work on herself. Make sure her time with you is fun, with a bit of serious thrown in (not the other way around). Having fun in your chats, visits, etc., will get her "out of herself," and that may help her get perspective. Besides, it is just FUN!

Edit: if her verbal reassurances that you are still smoking hot are important to you, be sure to tell her--"I really like it when you check out my bod and make comments. I would love to hear more of that; I just need to know I'm still attractive to you." If you need to hear those words--called "words of affirmation" from the book, "Love Languages" or something like that; can't remember--then tell her. If she doesn't respond, remind her--and have her read the book (you should, too). Words may be important to how you receive love. A loving partner honors that.

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sisters359 Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: SE Wisconsin Posts: 2,471	Re: Sexy pictures, women being less visual, and long distance relationships. She knows you think she is sexy--she just doesn't see herself that way right now, for whatever reason. Keep doing what you are doing, and show the love. Other than the picture, does she seem any less loving to you? Sounds like you are doing a lot right, and she just needs to work on herself. Make sure her time with you is fun, with a bit of serious thrown in (not the other way around). Having fun in your chats, visits, etc., will get her "out of herself," and that may help her get perspective. Besides, it is just FUN! Edit: if her verbal reassurances that you are still smoking hot are important to you, be sure to tell her--"I really like it when you check out my bod and make comments. I would love to hear more of that; I just need to know I'm still attractive to you." If you need to hear those words--called "words of affirmation" from the book, "Love Languages" or something like that; can't remember--then tell her. If she doesn't respond, remind her--and have her read the book (you should, too). Words may be important to how you receive love. A loving partner honors that. Last edited by sisters359; 07-15-2012 at 11:12 AM.