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daggeredheart · 07-16-2012, 01:09 AM

You know I just had a lightbulb moment in your above paragraph. You stated that the "act" of writing the letter gives the WS a funeral if you will of the affair...that idea gives me comfort even though I know it's more symbolic than anything.

We all know that if they still want to cheat they will find infinite ways to do it. One can only hope that the stress, guilt and pain of doing that to someone you love will prevent them from future cheating either while married to us or in future relationships.

07-16-2012, 01:09 AM	#9 (permalink)
daggeredheart Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 346	Re: No Contact Letter & Exposure- do they prevent future cheating really? You know I just had a lightbulb moment in your above paragraph. You stated that the "act" of writing the letter gives the WS a funeral if you will of the affair...that idea gives me comfort even though I know it's more symbolic than anything. We all know that if they still want to cheat they will find infinite ways to do it. One can only hope that the stress, guilt and pain of doing that to someone you love will prevent them from future cheating either while married to us or in future relationships.