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that_girl · 07-16-2012, 02:31 AM

Just don't go to that part of the party. NOTHING is worth this stress in your relationship. He has fundamental dislike about stripping (I do too. I find it very tacky at these thigns, but whatever)...and it just bothers him. It's not about trust. It's not about you. It's about his beliefs and you are not respecting them.

If it bothers your husband this much, it should be a non-issue with you NOT to go to that part of the party. If your friend wants a stripper, fine. Have someone else order it and tell your friend you'll catch up with them when the stripper leaves.

Seriously, this is SO not worth causing strain in your marriage, imo.

I trust my husband completely,but I have always disliked the idea of strippers at a party for a person who is about to be married. It's just crude, imo. Others may disagree with me, but I have been like that since before I was dating. Thankfully, my husband doesn't like it either, but if either of us were in your situation, we'd put each other first (ha! I just asked him this situation!). I know I would put his feelings before my friends' feelings about a stripper.

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that_girl Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Wherever I lay my head. Posts: 14,243	Re: Trust issues??? Just don't go to that part of the party. NOTHING is worth this stress in your relationship. He has fundamental dislike about stripping (I do too. I find it very tacky at these thigns, but whatever)...and it just bothers him. It's not about trust. It's not about you. It's about his beliefs and you are not respecting them. If it bothers your husband this much, it should be a non-issue with you NOT to go to that part of the party. If your friend wants a stripper, fine. Have someone else order it and tell your friend you'll catch up with them when the stripper leaves. Seriously, this is SO not worth causing strain in your marriage, imo. I trust my husband completely,but I have always disliked the idea of strippers at a party for a person who is about to be married. It's just crude, imo. Others may disagree with me, but I have been like that since before I was dating. Thankfully, my husband doesn't like it either, but if either of us were in your situation, we'd put each other first (ha! I just asked him this situation!). I know I would put his feelings before my friends' feelings about a stripper.