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Old 07-16-2012, 02:58 PM   #32 (permalink)
DawnD
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Default Re: Red flag from disloyal spouses of false reconciliation/recovery

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Originally Posted by anonymouskitty View Post
Remorseful waywards don't set terms and conditions, my fWW went through literal hell, including bouts of physical abuse (including spitting on her face) from my side, and she didn't give me a time frame to get past her affair.
I don't agree with WS's trying to give a time table, but I also don't believe in BS's throwing it in their face for the rest of their life. At some point you truly do have to either accept that they made a horrible choice/series of choices and focus on fixing the marriage or divorce.
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