Originally Posted by mestalla guy
Hey guys, just back from work, thank you all for your advice, maybe I have to start looking at why I feel the way I do, my head has obviously not been screwed on, and I feel terrible that my gf might feel left out. Every one of you is saying I can't expect to have this friendship, it's killing me I might lose my friend though, I have a strong bond with my friends. I understand it's not an everyday situation here. It's tormenting me
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Why does it torment you? Does not this friend have other friends besides you? Does she date? If not, why not? You said yourself that you aren't involved with her.
On the other hand, do you love your new gf? Committed and monogamous relationship? Does she not meet your needs on her own? Is something missing from this relationship? If not, why do you need the both of them?
You really need to ask yourself why this is really "torment" for you to choose between the two of them.