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Originally Posted by nikki4384
 It's the craziest thing I've ever been in. We will be fine all day, week, whatever and then all of a sudden he starts an arguement over something, gets me all riled up and we go at it for a couple hours. He leaves for about an hour and then comes back acting like nothing happened and trying to flirt and get me to have sex with him. It's gotten so bad that the only time we do have sex is after one of these episodes. And I'm really not in the mood to do ANYTHING with him because we were just arguing/fighting. It's like it turns him on for me to be like " no, get away from me, don't touch me." So he tries harder and eventually I just give in because I'm too tired to argue any more. What is going on? I know this is not normal, has anyone else ever heard of something like this? |
I have heard of people doing this. If you don't participate, he can't continue the activity. Have you tried leaving the room when he starts up?
If he isn't taking "no' as the answer when he tries to get physical after the fight, are you willing to continue being forced into sex?
This sounds like a form of abuse to me, but I could be wrong.