| | Re: what to do ? feeling very depressed and lonely...
I'm sorry that you are going through this pain.
The best way to handle this is to back off from your husband and put your energy into being the best person you can be. Start living for yourself right now. Get your career back on track.
A person who is so needy is not attractive. This alone could be pushing him away.
One suggest is to treat him according to the 180 (see the link in my signature block below.) This will help you heal and get stronger.
When you want to look for him on facebook... STOP. Do not do that. It's too needy and not good for your mental/emotional health. When you start to think of him... stop it. Change your thoughts to things that make you feel good.
You can get through this. And when you do you will be much stronger than you were before all this happened. If things do not work out with him, i have no doubt that you will find a man who can love you for who you are.