| | Re: D-Day #2
There is nothing wrong with hoping and fighting to get your wife back. Most honorable, self-respecting men have to feel that they did everything possible. You have loved her most of your life so it is perfectly normal to feel like you don't want to give up while there is the slightest chance left.
Is the counseling she scheduled Marriage or Individual? If it is MC I see nothing wrong with you going with her. If it is IC then go with her if you are asked, but do not be surprised if the counselor asks to see her alone. The counselor will probably set the schedule.
Nothing wrong with trying to recover what is lost until you just hit the wall and can't do it any more.