Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Need some help

flag · 07-17-2012, 01:42 PM

I am a Husband and Father. Contemplating a life with another woman (yes I feel like an -------).

I know it could all be just soemthign different, new uninhibited with stresses of everday life. This woman is so amazing, so loving, so not bitter, not mad and is quite a happy person to be around.

Just don't really want to let this other amazing woman go.

But I don't want to cause my (3) children or even my wife pain. I know I already have by making the choices I have. Our (14 yr) relationship isn't the best and always seems filtered and censored to get along. If my wife knew - she would want to leave (understandably) - which I think I would be fine with but she would be so spiteful and hurtful with that information.

Have you been in this situation? Did you leave? How do you feel now?

Please skip the judgement and move on to another post if that is your perspective,

07-17-2012, 01:42 PM	#1 (permalink)
flag Registered User Join Date: Jul 2012 Posts: 1	Need some help - contemplating. I am a Husband and Father. Contemplating a life with another woman (yes I feel like an -------). I know it could all be just soemthign different, new uninhibited with stresses of everday life. This woman is so amazing, so loving, so not bitter, not mad and is quite a happy person to be around. Just don't really want to let this other amazing woman go. But I don't want to cause my (3) children or even my wife pain. I know I already have by making the choices I have. Our (14 yr) relationship isn't the best and always seems filtered and censored to get along. If my wife knew - she would want to leave (understandably) - which I think I would be fine with but she would be so spiteful and hurtful with that information. Have you been in this situation? Did you leave? How do you feel now? Please skip the judgement and move on to another post if that is your perspective, Last edited by flag; 07-17-2012 at 01:47 PM.