kag123

I have seen a lot of the men here mention this.

My H has never tried it. I have offered before and he has been very adamant that its a no. He believes that is am exit only and I also think he has hang ups thinking it is somehow "gay".

I have always been curious to try it, moreso now that its one of the only big things we have never explored together sexually.

He will let me touch and kiss his balls and sometimes his perineum, but if I dare get too close to the back door he yanks me away.

So guys - how did you end up getting the nerve to try it? Did you ever have hang ups about it and got over them? Did you come up with the idea or did your partner? Are there any guys on this board who share my H's sentiment of no way, no how?

I would never beg him to do this if he really didn't want to. I just thought it might be a fun way to spice things up and I am curious if he might enjoy it if he would just be a little more open minded about it.

He has also had the doctor speak to him about one day getting a prostate exam and this idea freaks him out to the point of not wanting to go back to the doctor. I don't exactly like getting an exam there either (and I had to have a couple after childbirth) but I have to admit that having done anal play in the bedroom eased my fears a lot.
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