Originally Posted by Hellioness
Well while they are 15 and aren't quite grown I would do my best to keep them from seeing each other. Even if it meant become the mom every child hates who completely strips there freedoms, and hope that he would go away.
Now the thing with me was I never had any one telling me not to do it, or anyone to fight to "have things my way"
Well,therin lies the assumption or the basis for my initial question.
If you never had that sort of parental restraint,then wher are you going to get the " deep resolve" to break that cycle if you were to see it happening again?
I believe an individuals personality / character is the sum total of all their life's experiences and encounters.
Basically what I'm asking is this. What is the fundamental difference between the person TODAY [ the OP ] who posted this story ,and the person IN the story?