Originally Posted by alton
I've been there... sort of. Wife had an old blackberry in the draw, I tried turning it on to look through and she snatched it away. I knew right away that it probably had stuff from her ex and she even hinted as such, and told me you don't want to see that.
It's natural to feel insecure over it, but you just have to forget about it. Don't bother bringing it up, even if you were not snooping. It won't acheive anything.
Completely disagree, worst thing you can do is try to compete with an ex. Just be yourself, it's you she fell madly in love with not this other guy.
not really advocating competing but am advocating uping his game soo speak.
wondering if he saw pic of the other guy and he was much bigger. that would be hard for most guys to see or know. espically if she made comments about his size and how she liked it!!!