Re: Addicted husband..what to do? Pot
My brother-in-law is a pot smoker, he got in with the wrong crowd and started bringing it into his mom's house. She called me while he was gone and asked if my H and I would come down and call the law for her, she couldn't bring herself to do it. We went through his room and found baggies with seeds in them, but not enough to have charges pressed. He had a partial joint inside the plastic end of a pen.. I called the law, but nothin was done, there wasn't enough there for them to arrest him.
He still to this day, smokes pot, he swears there's nothing wrong with it, says it doesn't hurt anyone and that it should be legal. I disagree with him, and refuse to let him in my house near my kid if hes high.
My only advice to you is to get your kids out of that environment, if he gets caught, and they find pot in you home and you know he has it there, then the state can take them from you, and have you arrested for child endangerment, at least that's what here works here.
You cant change someone that doesnt want to change. I learned that the hard way. My H was an addict... an addict to video games.. he finally realized enough was enough when our son asked to go fishin and he told him no, cause he didnt have the money cause he was payin for the online game.
I hope everything works out for you, I know its got to be hard.
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