| | Re: Divorcing after discovering husband's affair. Need help :(
I can't relate to the infidelity piece, but in terms of custody since I'm going through those issues in my divorce right now - it doesn't matter what you like and don't like. So he's bringing your son around this OW - stupid parenting decision and entirely selfish, no doubt. But that doesn't mean you have any right - or legal ability - to keep your son from his father. Unless you can prove he is an unfit parent to a judge, you'll get joint, 50/50 custody unless he doesn't want it. You don't get to be the bad guy and keep your son from his father even if you want to. Unless there's just cause, or unless the other parent doesn't want it, shared/joint custody is the norm. Just because you're the mother doesn't give you any extra pull these days. You need to start preparing yourself for that.
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