| | Re: Divorcing after discovering husband's affair. Need help :(
Oh I forgot to add: you can't control if he brings your son around OW, unfortunately. He will do whatever he's going to do. All you can do is be a good mom to your son and start taking the necessary steps to disentagle your life from your stbx's.
Good for you for filing for divorce and hitting the gym and your new church.
Make sure you treat yourself well.