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Ano,<br />
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We don't have children currently. This has been another emotional issue. As the doctors have said I probably wont get pregnant on my own. That I'll need InVitro or along those lines. My husband says he is ready for children but just wants to have them naturally as he is convinced that we don't have the money for Adoption or InVitro.<br />
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That breaks my heart cause I believe if you have the will you will find away. I asked him before getting married how he felt about adoption and he said he would consider it. His exact words to me at one point last year was "I don't want to raise someone else child".<br />
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Great - glad we discussed this.<br />
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The other thing he does and stated last night that in his eyes is OK to do is raise his voice and yell. If I have something to say I am going to say it, if that means raising my voice and yelling then fine by me.<br />
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I explained to him that is disrespectful and how can he expect me to be open to talking when he is YELLING!!?!?!? He basically told me to get over it and deal with it that is how he is.<br />
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I am sorry -- if you truly love someone you show them respect. You don't yell and not listen to them.<br />
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He makes me CRAZY!!
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This is a tough situation. It seems like a no win situation. Do you have anywhere you can go? Parents or siblings house? Maybe if you leave for a while it will knock him back to reality. If he doesn't seem like hes willing to change, then it might time to call it quits.
I'm sorry.
