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Originally Posted by believer
But now, I am alittle confused.
You mentioned you have been divorced and in your second marriage. But you mention, that you & your husband a doing well but are committed to giving time to heal. Are you dealing with trust issues in your second marriage or are you referring to your ex from your 1st marriage. So depending on your answer - I have some questions for you . . .
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1st marriage there were no infidelity/trust issues...we were high school sweethearts and together 20 years...just grew apart in many ways...he remarried 2 months after we divorced and I met my now husband a few years later. We've been married 7 years and he had an emotional affair last July. It progressed to kissing (during lunch as they worked together) for a few weeks then he ended it and I found out the same day. Our issues stemmed from him not dealing well living with my kids and me withdrawing thinking he would eventually leave me anyway so we became distant and he befriended a woman from work who just went through a second bad divorce and started talking to him.
I'm glad you are taking the time you need to come to a decision. It's certainly not an easy one to make no matter which way you go.