nurse2008

Hello everyone,

Just wanted to give you an update of my story...

My husband and I are breaking up.

I found out a short while ago that the emotional affair that my husband had, never stopped like he said it did. Although he states that the level of closeness they had shared has decreased, and he insists they are now done, I'm fresh out of giving him chances.

To be honest, from the moment I found out in January I had a bad feeling about the whole thing. I thought to myself, if a person betrayes my trust and falls in love with another person, who's to say that won't happen again? Like the significance I and our family had to him, meant less than the other woman.

How can a person say, it meant very little and expect that to be a rational response? After all, if it meant very little, to me that says that he was willing to sacrifice our marriage, our family, for something that meant "very little" to him. Ouch.

Anyways, I'm telling you this so that those of you who are in similar situations will also have the courage to look inside and really ask yourself if this is what you want, or if this is something you can forgive. If they can do it once...

I made the right choice for me when I decided to leave him. No regrets. A relationship not based on trust, is difficult to navigate. In my opinion. Besides, what kind of role model would I be to my kids if I portrayed a person who did not believe she deserved better than that?

Good luck to you all. Thank you for the kind wishes.