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larniegrl · 10-08-2009, 07:41 AM

You mentioned his drinking...is it common for him to drink too much? If this is the case, you probably need to start there. This tends to be the foundation of alot of other behaviors. If this is the case, Al-anon offers good support/foundation for you to find help for yourself...and then your marriage.

You need some support. Constant fighting/yelling/nagging over his habits (not matter how right you might be) will only make him want to do it again...and more often. Its just the way guys are wired. If this has been going on for awhile, you may want to think about talking to someone...just to get a good perspective on the situation.

10-08-2009, 07:41 AM	#2 (permalink)
larniegrl Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: USA Posts: 198	Re: Any advice please? You mentioned his drinking...is it common for him to drink too much? If this is the case, you probably need to start there. This tends to be the foundation of alot of other behaviors. If this is the case, Al-anon offers good support/foundation for you to find help for yourself...and then your marriage. You need some support. Constant fighting/yelling/nagging over his habits (not matter how right you might be) will only make him want to do it again...and more often. Its just the way guys are wired. If this has been going on for awhile, you may want to think about talking to someone...just to get a good perspective on the situation.