Originally Posted by not_here
Both my wife and the male firend are people of faith, I just not want this to bigger than it is or see something that is not there.
My gut would be screaming over all the stuff you posted. On your "faith" comment, sorry, but I'm always amazed at how many cheating threads here involve an OM/OW met through church.
Of course this other guy is going to act strange around you. Even if this isn't an EA/PA, he KNOWS that he would not be cool with some other guy having 45 min phone conversations with his wife. He needs to find someone else's shoulder to cry on.