| | Re: Why can't love win...
Love does win. Always. But not before its value is realized.
I know what you feel. You know that I know that because if you follow my story here you will see a mirror of your feelings in it.
Rack up 6-7 more posts and go to the private forum. You will see my thread there. It covers the events after my wife and I reconciled back in January (After I sent those letters).
Love did win at the end, but only after I was done feeling hurt and she was no longer able to hurt me.
Love's victory doesn't necessarily mean the survival of a marriage. You need to understand that with all your heart. You will.
Start a journal thread and post your feelings all under that thread. I will be able to help you understand many of them. There are many people like you and I here. They're very helpful.
You're not alone.