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synthetic · 07-23-2012, 10:40 AM

Love does win. Always. But not before its value is realized.

eyesopen,

I know what you feel. You know that I know that because if you follow my story here you will see a mirror of your feelings in it.

Rack up 6-7 more posts and go to the private forum. You will see my thread there. It covers the events after my wife and I reconciled back in January (After I sent those letters).

Guess what?

Love did win at the end, but only after I was done feeling hurt and she was no longer able to hurt me.

Love's victory doesn't necessarily mean the survival of a marriage. You need to understand that with all your heart. You will.

Start a journal thread and post your feelings all under that thread. I will be able to help you understand many of them. There are many people like you and I here. They're very helpful.

You're not alone.

07-23-2012, 10:40 AM	#4 (permalink)
synthetic Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 1,474	Re: Why can't love win... Love does win. Always. But not before its value is realized. eyesopen, I know what you feel. You know that I know that because if you follow my story here you will see a mirror of your feelings in it. Rack up 6-7 more posts and go to the private forum. You will see my thread there. It covers the events after my wife and I reconciled back in January (After I sent those letters). Guess what? Love did win at the end, but only after I was done feeling hurt and she was no longer able to hurt me. Love's victory doesn't necessarily mean the survival of a marriage. You need to understand that with all your heart. You will. Start a journal thread and post your feelings all under that thread. I will be able to help you understand many of them. There are many people like you and I here. They're very helpful. You're not alone. __________________ "Selflessness is just a lofty word for codependency, and it's dysfunctional" - Shari Shreiber DO YOU LOVE TO BE NEEDED, OR NEED TO BE LOVED?