Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - 2 Tough Questions

sad_angel · 07-23-2012, 10:57 AM

Of course it is a hard decision to walk away from the marriage - granted it has its share of problems.

But I fear I will resent him in the end for not trying everything possible to have a child. Which will ultimately end our marriage.
I completely understand I can't make him change his mind and that if by chance that happened he would resent myself and the child also.
Which is not at all what I want.

I would have believe your comment Acorn 5 years ago - "I know children are important to you, so I will try to have kids." But he was resistant to even talk about it, let alone start trying. We didn't start trying until almost 2 years ago. And I understand trying and it might just take me longer to get pregnant. But he became distant and then tells me after a year that he has a low sex drive. Lovely that you couldn't talk to your wife about that since that would cause a concern in trying to get pregnant. I just don't understand.

07-23-2012, 10:57 AM	#13 (permalink)
sad_angel Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Posts: 39	Re: 2 Tough Questions - Need some Thoughts Of course it is a hard decision to walk away from the marriage - granted it has its share of problems. But I fear I will resent him in the end for not trying everything possible to have a child. Which will ultimately end our marriage. I completely understand I can't make him change his mind and that if by chance that happened he would resent myself and the child also. Which is not at all what I want. I would have believe your comment Acorn 5 years ago - "I know children are important to you, so I will try to have kids." But he was resistant to even talk about it, let alone start trying. We didn't start trying until almost 2 years ago. And I understand trying and it might just take me longer to get pregnant. But he became distant and then tells me after a year that he has a low sex drive. Lovely that you couldn't talk to your wife about that since that would cause a concern in trying to get pregnant. I just don't understand.