| | Re: need some support please!!
yes expose - I too felt some kind of reason to not expose my ex's infidelity, felt like it was reflecting on me, or that it may harm my chances at R... in hindsight, the longer you wait the further she will be - assuming at this point you would still even consider R.
I exposed, even after "promising" her I wouldn't on d-day#2, which is when I realized R was no longer on table. She was peeved, called yelling, saying why did I break my promise, why was I putting her family and friends in the middle of all this, they don't need to know or want to know, yada yada. It was fog talk big time. Wish I'd have done it the moment after I confronted her and got the trickle truth. Do it.