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Sadwithtwolittlegirls · 07-23-2012, 01:46 PM

My wife has been upset about finances. She also had her father die suddenly three weeks ago in a car wreck. We have been married just under 14 years.

She went away for the weekend with her girlfriends and told them she was thinking about leaving me. She told them she still loved me just couldn't stay any longer.

She came home from her trip on the Saturday. We went shopping like always and had a great BBQ. On Sunday we took the kids to camp. From that moment on she stopped talking to me. I didn't say anything thinking it would make it worse.

On Tuesday I came home from work to find her stuff gone and a letter on the counter. She said we both know it's over, I was a good man and take care of myself. She needs to be free. She is 34 I am 40.

Only three weeks earlier she was all over me telling me she loved me more than ever, during the July 1st weekend we cuddled watching the fireworks with our kids.

Now she's gone.

It has been a week and we haven't spoken. She left me with an 8 year old and 12 year old girl. She is living with a friend from work and I know she is struggling since she only works part time.

I just wan her to come home. We are partners in a business everything we have is in joint accounts. She has only seen the kids once in two weeks and says to my daughter in a text that she might see them next week.

So far the girls are doing ok.

07-23-2012, 01:46 PM	#1 (permalink)
Sadwithtwolittlegirls Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Canada Posts: 1,022	My Wife Left Last Tuesday My wife has been upset about finances. She also had her father die suddenly three weeks ago in a car wreck. We have been married just under 14 years. She went away for the weekend with her girlfriends and told them she was thinking about leaving me. She told them she still loved me just couldn't stay any longer. She came home from her trip on the Saturday. We went shopping like always and had a great BBQ. On Sunday we took the kids to camp. From that moment on she stopped talking to me. I didn't say anything thinking it would make it worse. On Tuesday I came home from work to find her stuff gone and a letter on the counter. She said we both know it's over, I was a good man and take care of myself. She needs to be free. She is 34 I am 40. Only three weeks earlier she was all over me telling me she loved me more than ever, during the July 1st weekend we cuddled watching the fireworks with our kids. Now she's gone. It has been a week and we haven't spoken. She left me with an 8 year old and 12 year old girl. She is living with a friend from work and I know she is struggling since she only works part time. I just wan her to come home. We are partners in a business everything we have is in joint accounts. She has only seen the kids once in two weeks and says to my daughter in a text that she might see them next week. So far the girls are doing ok.