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Sadwithtwolittlegirls · 07-23-2012, 02:05 PM

I do agree... but after her dad died I saw her attitude change. I mentioned maybe she was depressed and she went off the handle. She was estranged from her dad since she was 14.. but always hoped one day he would call. He never did. He never saw his little girl get married or met either of his grandkids.

I had to tell her that he died as i was the one who found out first. That was terrible. Three weeks later I had to tell my girls that their mother had left. That was the most horrible thing I have ever done in my life.

When she did talk about leaving she said that she couldn't trust me to man up and look after the bills and groceries and other things around the house. She said she had been hinting but it never got through. She said she probably wasn't gonna stay. I made the money.. she was sick of having to do all the finances.

But when we went out shopping she kept saying WE on everything. I thought we were gonna work it out.

Since she has been gone I have gone through every dime of debt and figured out what we would need to get through the debt. I guess i just did it too late.

07-23-2012, 02:05 PM	#4 (permalink)
Sadwithtwolittlegirls Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Canada Posts: 1,038	Re: My Wife Left Last Tuesday I do agree... but after her dad died I saw her attitude change. I mentioned maybe she was depressed and she went off the handle. She was estranged from her dad since she was 14.. but always hoped one day he would call. He never did. He never saw his little girl get married or met either of his grandkids. I had to tell her that he died as i was the one who found out first. That was terrible. Three weeks later I had to tell my girls that their mother had left. That was the most horrible thing I have ever done in my life. When she did talk about leaving she said that she couldn't trust me to man up and look after the bills and groceries and other things around the house. She said she had been hinting but it never got through. She said she probably wasn't gonna stay. I made the money.. she was sick of having to do all the finances. But when we went out shopping she kept saying WE on everything. I thought we were gonna work it out. Since she has been gone I have gone through every dime of debt and figured out what we would need to get through the debt. I guess i just did it too late.