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Originally Posted by isabella81
On another note, He is a good man...but what about the verbal aggression? Do I deserve that? Sometimes he can say some pretty hurtful things and even though they are said out of anger, I can't forget how they made me feel. I also know that there is some truth to what he says, because those feelings can't come from just no where.
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Hopefully, you can work on this area in marriage counseling. I think a lot of how people argue has to do with upbringing and how issues were handled in their childhood with their parents, family. You don't deserve it and hopefully he can get some help to improve on that area, because each time he does it will only build resentment within you.
When he says things in anger, it doesn't necessarily mean he believes what he's saying. He may be saying things he knows will push your buttons because they bother you, not that he believes them.
Best of luck with counseling. I hope it all works out well for you both.