scotty

ive tried different techniques. the usual non romantic thing, a wink and point to the bedroom. also tried the long kiss type of mood getter. she doesnt like to kiss and doesnt like to hold hands. she likes her back rubbed. so ive gone that route. and of course i try to make some type of move. she says why does it always lead to sex.... what? if it always led to sex then i wouldnt be having the crisis. is teasing leading to sex. isnt that what ya did when love was new. tease the heck out of each other all day till ya couldnt stand it anymore. if i was ugly i could understand. neither of us are overweight. both of us are good looking. no weird abnormalities here. orgasm never been a problem for her. the worst now is she has been so nonsexual that when we do have sex it really all about her. by that i mean she has an orgasm and then tells me to hurry up because we are so outa practice that it starts to hurt. aaarrrggghhhh sometimes she just stops and leaves me there to fend for myself, which isnt as bad as it seems but still rather pitiful. i mean how bad can it really be considering this only occurs every 3-4 months. the pain thing hasnt always been a problem so dont think that its something that needs looking into. its literally because she rarely uses her thing lol. i get so angry inside anytime she makes comments about people and their sex lives. or when we will watch tv and they have some sex seen like "medium" or something. jeez those two are always going at it. and my wife always makes some comment about what a great relationship they have. inside im thinking first, its a tv show, duh, second, if its so darn great why arent we doing it.