mollyL

Good grief. You have to have enough going on in your life to not make an issue of a wet dream. They are a physiological fact, and as Draconis said, uncontrollable. Trying to insert yourself in this situation is totally unfair to your husband.
You don't say if you have children. If you have sons, for God's sake don't make a federal case out of their emissions, should you come to find they have them (which they will). Bottom line: Get off your man's case!!!