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repunzel · 06-03-2008, 12:38 PM

Giving up on 8 years of marriage is sad..i know how difficult it is when you are going through thick and thin when you had such wonderful happy memories and specially when you love him and have children with him..I have been going through a hard time lately too and i can understand your pain...

You have to be positive and talk things through,like everyone says lines of communication are very important and you must go somewhere to a place apart from your home sit together and talk things through alone...forget about the world and try patch things up and start thinking of the children too how difficult it will be for them to cope living apart from one of the parent....

Tell him to be positive and think positive and stop feeling what he is feeling...we all go through this phase when we stop loving or maybe our feelings fade due to stress but doesnt mean we dont love eachother...

Maybe you need to relight your lives and have couple time together every week away from the children to feel eachother back...

The biggest mistake all of us to is when a new born arrives we forget our partners and thats not right for it creates a distance such as whats happened...

Why dont you start dressing up and surprise him at home you never know the spark might create the fire to lite up your loves again...

Its never too late..energy flows where attention goes...And goodluck...

06-03-2008, 12:38 PM	#15 (permalink)
repunzel Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 28	Re: He says he's not in love anymore Giving up on 8 years of marriage is sad..i know how difficult it is when you are going through thick and thin when you had such wonderful happy memories and specially when you love him and have children with him..I have been going through a hard time lately too and i can understand your pain... You have to be positive and talk things through,like everyone says lines of communication are very important and you must go somewhere to a place apart from your home sit together and talk things through alone...forget about the world and try patch things up and start thinking of the children too how difficult it will be for them to cope living apart from one of the parent.... Tell him to be positive and think positive and stop feeling what he is feeling...we all go through this phase when we stop loving or maybe our feelings fade due to stress but doesnt mean we dont love eachother... Maybe you need to relight your lives and have couple time together every week away from the children to feel eachother back... The biggest mistake all of us to is when a new born arrives we forget our partners and thats not right for it creates a distance such as whats happened... Why dont you start dressing up and surprise him at home you never know the spark might create the fire to lite up your loves again... Its never too late..energy flows where attention goes...And goodluck...