| | Re: Husband has moved out
You are married to a serial cheater. Yes, you should get your ducks in a row. Call around to find a a good family law attorney. Are all your accounts (checking, savings, credit, loans, etc.) in both names?
I think the most important thing you can do, to protect yourself, is get your name off joint accounts. You don't have to serve him with a divorce complaint, or even begin that procedure. But protecting yourself financially is important.
You husband has a history of adultery. You do not mention how he interacts with the children. Sounds like he may fill his time with work and chasing women. Also sounds as if MC didn't work for you two.
He has now moved out because he "needs time." I strongly suspect his time is being spent with someone else. It would be in your best interests to verify that. And call an attorney ASAP.
I refuse to make anyone a priority in my life who considers me nothing more than an option.
You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.