happilymarried67

She is very confused and she cannot work on either relationship with one guy in the background. She has got to make a commit to one or the other and then leave the other guy alone--done. Then whomever she is with she has got to become transparent and hide nothing. She needs to seek a councelor to help her work through her feelings and help her become a better person all the way around. Can you trust her, not at the moment. Can you trust her again, through counceling and lots of commitment on her part yes, but she really has got to want to change and be with one or the other. Both guys need to back off and let her figure her life out. Right now, she is hurting for both of you and both guys are hurting too. She has unfinished emotional relationships with both of you and can not fix either until she devotes to one, or leaves you both. Just my opinion.

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