Re: Confused.
Okay, I would say that you need to find someone to help you sort through your feelings with the "I love him and want to be with him, I think I am going to leave." That can't be good for either of you. You both need to grow up a bit. Marriage is a commitment that takes alot of work. It has ups and downs and it is very hard thing to do. If you have questions you need to seek some advice to help you sort out you feelings. I think I would also look into AA and Al-anon for both of you to work on that aspect of the relationship. Just a couple thoughts.
PS--have you ever thought he could be suffering from depression (low sex drive and his drinking?)
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