| | Re: He wants in the back door..help!
Don't tell me that all women in porn are enjoying themselves... that's rubbish. There is a lot of exploitation in the sex trades. Don't forget that and surely don't use the condition of the women (mentally, emotionally) as a reason to support porn...
HOWEVER... if you aren't married to Mr. Respectful it could easily be seen as degrading to have him want to do to her what he sees in porn. If you're married to a guy who treats sex as though it isn't something special and their wives indifferently, it would be easy to ask what the difference is between the indifferent way men treat women in porn (it is all about them) and the way the guy is treating his wife.
Also, this nonsense about "hey, I know what we could do" is so silly. The guy can't even talk about sex properly.
Remember, I'm a very sexually adventurous person. But I didn't get there by feeling pressured to do things I wasn't into or by having my husband (either of them) behave poorly toward me but then want what he's seen in some video. I got there by being loved and wanted and respected.