 Re: Should I expect actions for making up
What exactly is it that you want him to do?
Were you specific?
Because if I was in your H's shoes, I probably wouldn't have a clue how to satisfy your demand and would be very anxious not being able to figure out what would make you happy.
What do you think this one gesture is going to accomplish? Are you really going to forget about the affair just because he does one thing for you? Or are you hoping against hope that you are going to be able to replace the bad memories with this one good memory he's supposed to provide you with? (In my experience this has never worked.)
If he's never been a gestures kind of guy, I wouldn't expect him to get it.
Personally, I think looking at his every day actions since d-day is more meaningful about his intentions than to wait for one big moment that is supposed to erase all the hurt of the past.
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