| | Re: Should I expect actions for making up
Originally Posted by beachgirl
weekend away, planning a date for the entire day, delivering flowers to work. My idea is anything that requires more than 2 minutes of thought. Same amount of effort someone would put into a special xmas present. Not just flowers still in the bag on the counter.
Are these things he would have done before d-day?
If he's never been 'that kinda guy', I'm not sure why you think he would begin now.
If he's habitually done things like that in the past and is not now, I'd say it is a red flag concerning his commitment.
1/2 wise. 1/2 crazy. you pick.
Happiness is a butterfly, which when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you. ~Nathaniel Hawthorne