Amplexor

If you are this unhappy and don’t even feel a desire to be intimate with him a any level then certainly do not get married at this time. If it is something you both think you want in your future then seek premarital counseling. Much of this sounds like basic communications problems which can improve with professional help. If he is as hard headed as you say and it is absolutely his way or the highway then take the highway and find someone who will respect you, your opinions and needs. Best of luck.

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Amp

Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.