Originally Posted by Still Lady
The day after I confessed, I wrote the OM to tell him everything was over, and I, beyond all stupidity, got sucked into an extended conversation with him, during which he asked for a picture. I took one on my phone
Your husband wrote:
Originally Posted by Still Knight
In it, I found a picture sent from her phone that day, of her standing in our bathroom mirror with her shirt open and her bra exposed, with a wine bottle nestled between her breasts. I knew immediately that wasn't intended for me.
Even if you didn't send it, how does a photo like that line up with telling the OM it is over?
You have to remember that your husband is now in a state of incredible emotional pain and looking for holes in your words. It's not a casual thing, it's eating at his brain like acid 24x7. Can you see how something like the above is going to feed his pain?
I know you are hurting, I know you are trying to justify yourself, and I am not saying everything is your fault. Would you believe that someone would take a photo like that if they were committed to ending the affair?