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Originally Posted by Utopian2630
Has anyone here ever had an experience when one person was feeling 'pressure' to marry by a certain age? Am I wrong by wanting to wait a little while ( maybe another 8-12 months)? After a lot of soul searching, I know its what I want, but just wanted to start things off right. How can I effectively communicate this without looking like I am stalling???
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I feel that a marriage should happen when both people are certain they're ready. If there's any pressure from one person when the other isn't ready, it's just not a good start for a marriage... that person would probably always feel "trapped" or pushed into something they weren't ready for. Not a real good foundation to start a hopeful lifetime together.
I think that wanting to have your proverbial ducks in a row and get some loans paid off and so on is a healthy way to look at this. Good luck!