Originally Posted by Sara8
Everyone is different.
If you go in knowing it will drag on and cost a lot, then you will be happy with that choice.
Another story. My SIL's husband cheated. Again the divorce dragged on and on costing thousands of dollars. After a year she just wanted him gone so she just agreed to the no fault divorce.
The common denominator in both of my stories is both men contested the terms of the divorce which made it get ugly FAST. Contested = lots of money regardless of the cause put on the papers.