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Toffer · 07-31-2012, 09:39 AM

king,

While I think the word demand is pretty strong, I do agree with your reasoning.

I also feel your pain because I have been in this situation many times.

I'm really not sure what you can do except maybe talk to her and say something along the lines of "Honey, I was a little upset the other day that when we had the house to ourselves, you choose to have a nap rather than spend some intimate time with me. Can you tell me why?"

In her defense, she may have geniely been tired and the quiet time was a welcome relief.

However, after her nap, she should have been ready to go (IMO)

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Toffer Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: East Coast Posts: 2,795	Re: Are there certain situations where sex should almost be expected? king, While I think the word demand is pretty strong, I do agree with your reasoning. I also feel your pain because I have been in this situation many times. I'm really not sure what you can do except maybe talk to her and say something along the lines of "Honey, I was a little upset the other day that when we had the house to ourselves, you choose to have a nap rather than spend some intimate time with me. Can you tell me why?" In her defense, she may have geniely been tired and the quiet time was a welcome relief. However, after her nap, she should have been ready to go (IMO)