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Old 07-31-2012, 10:33 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Default Re: I kinda had an affair/ inappropriate convo. Need Help!

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Originally Posted by Wholady22 View Post
I just dont know how to correct the im message issue. I need to regain his trust but i dont know how.
ASK HIM HOW you can regain his trust. Tell him you want to regain it but aren't sure how.

He is the person you need to ask.

So you told your ex not to mess up his current relationship and then started talking to him about sex you had in the past together? Because that was conducive to helping his current relationship?

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Surely you realize that is NOT innocent.

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Correction, it was a back and forth im on facebook on 1 day only a year ago. We joked, caught up on our current lives ect. And by advice about his current relationship, he said that he was happy in his current relationship. And I said he should try not to mess it up.
Boundaries. Learn them. Enforce them. Keep them.
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