wilding

OK, so I have been with my husband for almost 2 years, we just got married 2 months ago. Our relationship has always been a lil rocky. He is drinker and he works a lot. He says he doesn't have time to spend with me, and every time I try to talk to him he gets upset and we argue. He can go with his brother or friends whenever they ask, and has time to play on the computer, just not time for me. I feel like he has no respect for me at all and that I am on the bottom of his priority list. When he gets mad he gets really mad and he doesn't calm down very easily. He can is verbally abusive, and is proud to be an the way he is.He gets mad at me when he falls asleep during the day and I don't wake him up before bed, even though I try to. He's really mean when you wake him up. I just feel used and talking doesn't help. Any advise would be great. Thanks