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C123 · 07-31-2012, 11:21 AM

So why did you marry him? I assume he was this way prior to your marriage two months ago. Given the fact that he is proud to be the way he is, I have no advice for you other than to get out now while you can. Leave before your finances get too intermingled and you start adding children into the mix because if he's abusive towards you, he'll be abusive towards them. If that happens, it's your fault because you had the chance to leave.

We all make mistakes. It looks like you've made one but luckily you can fix it. If you stay in this marriage he will walk all over you for the rest of your life or until you decide to leave 10 years from now, but by that time, leaving will be MUCH harder.

Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear, but you have the power to fix this. Leave now. No one deserves this kind of treatment. If you don't leave, whatever happens going forward is on you.

Best of luck.

07-31-2012, 11:21 AM	#2 (permalink)
C123 Member Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: East Coast Posts: 154	Re: Need help So why did you marry him? I assume he was this way prior to your marriage two months ago. Given the fact that he is proud to be the way he is, I have no advice for you other than to get out now while you can. Leave before your finances get too intermingled and you start adding children into the mix because if he's abusive towards you, he'll be abusive towards them. If that happens, it's your fault because you had the chance to leave. We all make mistakes. It looks like you've made one but luckily you can fix it. If you stay in this marriage he will walk all over you for the rest of your life or until you decide to leave 10 years from now, but by that time, leaving will be MUCH harder. Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear, but you have the power to fix this. Leave now. No one deserves this kind of treatment. If you don't leave, whatever happens going forward is on you. Best of luck.